Whoa!!! That is an awful lot of info that you have, or should I say ammo? Sounds like you got the guns to fight them too. I have too had my own dilema with this department of fruitcakes. In Nov 2004, 2 months after my marriage broke down and got my own place, I was wrapping xmas presents for my 2 daughters then aged 6 & 8. My oldest was with her Dad on this particular day and little one with me. A knock at the door its the Scan team!!! They are here to investigate an allegation of physical abuse.... They interview me, tell me to continue parenting the way I have been and they will be in touch advised that they will have to interview the little one (as it was the oldest and her father that made the allegation) I offered them an interview immediatley as this was an absurd situation I found myself in as I never even smacked my girls, EVER. The little one told them much of the same as I the truth. I rec'd a call at my work to advise all allegations were "unsustantiated, and to go on and have a wonderful christmans with my daughters. You will receive a letter in the mail but dont expect it before christmas as this is a goverment department and things move a little slowly" End of story right, wrong! December 2004 through unitl May 2005 My ex hung onto the girls I had to go to court to get and order to allow me to see them a regular periods of time and in particular Mothers day, ex's solicitor passes up a letter from docs substantiating me of physical harm to the eldest and both of us for emotional harm to the youngest. Pretty much that was game over. This letter from docs held its place until final orders were made, my only thing to cling to was that I had fought docs so far that I rec'd a written apology for there inabilitiy to inform me of their findings and had the substantiation dropped to sustantiated risk. WHATEVER!!! To little to late my daughters school was advised of this letter and even find it hard to go there, but I do and hold me head high as I just hope one day people will see the father for who he is. I should also point out that this allegation was made with a photo of a bruise the size of a 20 cent piece on the buttock, and this was from my opening and closing a door on her and the handle had repeatedly hit her in the bottom. I am yet to see an 8 year old who's bottom is level with a regular bedroom door. Docs couldn't give a crap about that...
Where are we supposed to go? I obviously have issues with the father encouraging the eldest to lie about me, now including sexual harrassment by my fiancee at least twice and furhter abuse by myself and the other daughter can never back her stories. from a broken mother