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My story with Families SA

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I have a story I will share with you people. It is a story I don't share with people I meet in the real world. I have learned that certain allegations are so damaging, that its best not to tell people you were ever accused. It DOES NOT matter if you are innocent.

I was FALSELY accused by Families SA of molesting a child. As a result of this I have been barred from being a part of two children's lives for over 4 years. Children that loved me very much,

They have all these various psychological reports (none of them "forensic" grade) which assert that I have sexually abused this girl, and make various assertions that I probably sexually abused various other children. I know for a fact (something that can be known when you know what you have and haven't done, and know the truth) that the psychologist made up information to support what they assumed to be true. The interviews with the children certainly weren't object, its quite obvious the matter was satisfied in the psychologists mind before the interviews, and that the purpose of the interviews was to provide "evidence".

It all started when the 3 year old child was interviewed by a psychologist. I have a transcript of this interview, and it blatantly highlights that the psychologist confused the child and asked the child leading and suggestive questions.

It was around this time that they became convinced i must be a child molester. The first time the social workers visited to the house they told the mum (out of my earshot), "We don't like the look of him, he shouldn't be around your children". This is knowing nothing about me etc. I'll admit that I am obese and not very handsome, but I am certainly not rough looking or anything. But I am the certain of person that you can look at and be judgmental towards if you want to be.

I have various evidence that various foster carers heard about the "concerns" regarding me and the children and became "convinced" i must be a child molester. The children were told various things bad things about me, and repeatedly pressuring into disclosing information that the social workers and carers were convinced must exist.

Luckily the older girl is now 14 and Families SA can't control her. So she has contact with me. She certainly knows the truth and completely trusts me and indeed loves me.

She told me she was upset when she was in foster care, because the foster carers used to refer to me as "Michael Jackson".

On one occasion, she was in a very uncaring foster family, and was being bullied by their older teenage children (who also informed her that she would never be a real part of the family). She wrote a poem which she showed me and NO other person talking about suicide.

I was so worried for her, I sent down my Xbox 360, which at the time was new and expensive. I am not a rich person, but I wanted her to have my favorite possession at the time to show her I was thinking of her when she was in such distress. The foster family refused to allow her to ever use it, they said that i was giving it to her because I wanted sexual favors from her. This was the sort of suggestive environment the children were in, and after 2 years of seperation, it is something a human being should never have to learn: This truth. That even if you love a child, and they love you, be seperated from them for 2 years and place them in an environment hostile to you and they CAN be turned against you, even convinced you were a bad person.

Here is the sort of psychological thing that happened. The psychologists conclude I molested one of the youngest children. The other children are told by the foster carers that is has been PROVEN that i molested their sister, no question about it. They say what a bad man i am etc. Now imagine this going on for two years, the children being told its been well established that i molested one of their sisters. Then a child psychologist, who believes I am a child molester interviews them. She questions the children about me, and takes THEIR confusion about me from being told I am a child molester as EVIDENCE that I am a child molester! Its rather complicated, I would have to dump like 40 pages of transcripts in here to illustrate what really happened.

The once incidence where they say I molested the second youngest child, was on a very specific occasion. The oldest girl was with my the entire evening on that time, and indeed in the room when the supposed incident occured. So she knows the truth, thankfully. She knows what they are saying is not true because it contradicts her direct first hand experience. They twist innocent games you play with the children such as "I'm a monster. I'm going to get you" into sick methods you used to "seduce" the children for molestation.

God I can't possibly express to people how horrid the situation has been and how biased and unprofessional the whole system has been towards me. I am lucky I supposed I am not in gaol. Definitely after my experience I believe it is entirely possible to be falsely convinced of child sexual abuse.

They tried to stop the older children from seeing me, but luckily the teenage ones don't listen to them. They got the police one time when the teenager wanted to live with me (she has lived with me various occasions) but said she is not allowed to because I molested the children etc. I will never forget it she said she will kill herself rather than lose me, and that she trusts me more than any other person alive. She also screamed at the police at the top of her lungs that I am not a pedophile.

Well I have just skimmed over things here. I understand that people don't know who I am, and can't be certain whether such allegations may or may not be true. I just want to say to you I would NEVER hurt a child in any way, I am entirely balanced when it comes to sexual issues, and that I wouldn't post this if it wasn't true. What would be the point if it were true for me to come on here and convince people i dont know that I am innocent? What would be the point. I just want someone to know what has happened to me.

Its been a few years now, I just feel empty inside. I don't feel comfortable around children anymore, even knows I am a person who people would always say was very skilled with and well liked by children. In the situation I am actually around children, I find myself being really careful and thinking of the situation as "how could this be manipulated or misinterpreted" to seem a way that it isn't.

I have been extensively depressed, and truly deeply considered suicide. I haven't had a very good life, and loosing the children I love is agonizing. I think of them every day, being brought up by the people who caused this problem, people with values I severely disagree with. THey have been abused in foster care on various occasions, they have said so, and have showed us various significant bruises. We even had some photographs, nothing was ever done. Honestly do you know what one of the social workers said when we confronted her about the youngest girl having bruises all over he legs, saying the foster carer hit her, and becoming fearful when it was time to be picked up? (Crying her eyes out that she is mean to her and not to let her go).The social worker said the CHILD was lying. That she could not imagine her carer doing that, and that the child was deliberately bruising herself for attention.

You all know as well as I do that if they ever saw the child with such bruises in my care, there would be NO HESITATION to confirm it as child abuse.

The only reason I haven't honestly done myself in is because of the teenage children that are still in my life. It would hurt them too much. Many days I just don't have any energy to do anything. I don't enjoy anything. I try and sleep as much as I can so i don't have to be awake.

The oldest girl, in the psychological report, it said she was "scared" of me, and painted this impression she was trying to conceal something when questioned about sexual abuse and she "averted her eyes" etc. This was so ridiculous. Just a few weeks earlier she had me sent a 50 page book. FIFTY PAGES that you had MADE for me. Full of her stories and pictures and photos, all over it written that she loves me, and that I have helped her in her life. But that was the sort of unreality they were trying to weave. Thankfully she is back in my life, but if you read the psychological report you would imagine this scared, terrified girl, hiding and concealing the awful truth that she has been sexually abused by me. If you saw her for 5 minutes in real life with me, you would have no doubt in your mind that she loves me to peaces and is completely comfortable with me. In fact she has been living in the country, but she is coming all the way down just to stay with me because she has missed me.

Sorry to ramble. This has been my story anyway. Bye

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ausaec's picture

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There are many bad men out there who have destroyed the lives of young children, and there is no forgiveness ever from me. However, man from SA, i have heard quite a few stories similar to yours where the men are accused of such actions and even about a now grown woman who they stole her child from. This woman stood up in court and said it was a load of shit and nobody seemed to care ... What do you do. You seriously need to belt these dicks over the head with something really heavy and even then im still not quite sure you'd get through. I think a lot of them a narcissistic egomaniacal saddists who get much pleasure in the control position they have and the amount of pain and suffering they can inflict on many an innocent man and woman and child. Please put your complaint over at alecomm.com, just make sure you have the evidence to back it up.

anonymoususer's picture

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Having worked for the Department I can honestly say that Families SA (FSA) DO NOT remove children from families unless abuse/neglect is PROVEN. The work we deal with tough and upsetting and the way the media potrays it is complete bull. The system of FSA is complex but simple. Reports of neglect/abuse are entering the system at an amount that far exceeds our capacities to deal with. On one account the media portrays the Dept as slack and careless when situations arise where intervention was absent/lacking resulting in a child's death. On the other hand, FSA are labelled "child stealers" who remove children out of their own sick and twisted desires because they want to break up families. I studied for 4 years to get into this job and have worked with the most compassionate and good-willed people who do the job BECAUSE THEY CARE. If we didn't do it, who would? I think it's about time FSA start getting some appreciation. NO ONE enjoys removing children and yes, I do not disagree the system is fault-free but that is because people are running it and mistakes are inevitably going to be made. That doesn't mean attempts are not made to reach the best outcomes.
FSA have a committment to the best interests of the child and are bound by a legislation of maintaining best connections with the family. No matter what people assume, FSA do not remove without good reason. Even if they did want to, there are simply no where near enough resources to keep up with the workload. The first steps involve placing children on 1x 12 month Guardianship care and protection order. In this time, FSA attempt reunification with the family at all costs. If reunification fails, a child is put on another 12 month order. Upon failing of reunification for the second time the child can be placed on an order until attaining 18 years of age. Children are placed in alternative care with foster care the most favourable as it is family-based and provides stability and normality for that child. Within this time, best connections are maintained with the birth family.
I have seen some horrific things in the past and quiet often the damage has been done to an extent that it is almost irrevirsable.
I cannot express the extent to which "maintaining best connections with family" is pursued within the Dept. FSA DO NOT LIKE/ENJOY/GET PLEASURE OUT OF/ETC REMOVING CHILDREN FROM FAMILIES - THIS IS THE LAST RESORT WHEN ALL OTHER OPTIONS HAVE BEEN DRASTICALLY EXHAUSTED.
I understand what you are trying to express but I find this extremely difficult to accept. Children are in NO WAY bullied to lie or divulge incorrect information. Investigations are REAL accounts of what has happened based on REAL evidence. If a child divulges abuse then this is taken seriously and further investigations are made. FSA do what is best for the child. This could mean keeping them in foster based placement care because it is the best place for them and where the child wishes to remain which is supported by FSA. Information regarding the quality of this care is NOT TAKEN LIGHTLY and investigations will be pursued if the child reports abuse in a foster home. I have seen foster placements "break down" all the time as carers often cannot deal with the extreme behaviours of traumatised children and simply give up. Many children who enter the system are suffering disabilities or conditions or are delayed by years. This could mean birth parents are incapable of providing care for their children and are removed as a result. Usually children in foster care develop great relationships with a foster family and it is THEIR choice to remain there. Sometimes the Dept will not remove that child from this place as it would be damaging to interrupt their development and relationships that have been formed with their foster carers.

Children involved in FSA are extremely traumatised and it is very upsetting to see. The Department is not manipulative or scheming to ruin peoples lives. If you feel you have been wrongly treated/accused then I plead that you raise this as it is your right as a parent. I have seen children who have almost died, function at a level years below they should be, suffering from disabilities and extremely traumatised who develop and improve remarkably. These success stories are all that make this job worthwhile.

natasha's picture

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Yeah! so say you! We are not talking about the children who need to be removed from an horrendous situation. We are talking about children who are removed with no intervention and the children have made no disclosures no matter how hard the Department have tried. We are tallking about Workers who do not have the Best Interests of The Children anywhere on their agenda because they have lied deceived made many false and misleading statements to Doctors Children's Solicitors and to the Court so much so that the Magistrate believes the lies the Department have told.
We are talking about once the Department takes the children there is no Child Protection for them in their new approved by the Department Placement evidenced by when the parents and the children report the Violence, Domestic Violence, sexual, physical mental and psychological abuses they are suffering in their new placement The Department does nothing!
These children are traumatised by the very Department who pretends that they are doing good instead this Department are creating more harm and long term problems than ever possible to these innocent children.
I am sure you would not approve of this type of behaviour!
Nobody on this site claims to be perfect but what they do claim is that they love their children and are incensed by the treatment of their children and them by this tyrannical far too powerful untruthful, uncaring uncompassionate, unethical Department.
Of course there would be good caring workers in this Department but we have been fatefully unlucky to get the these XX@#@&XX^#X ones.The children are the ones suffering the most>
Unfortunately your Department does see some very sad and bad situations but don't you dare put everyone in the same category.
These children were doing well and loved and did not need SAVING.
Who is going to save them from your Department>
Don't spruik your values because they don't even come into play in a lot of situations. That is the trouble with the Department they generalise and think everyone is like "Mommie Dearest."

wanna be activist

Matilda Bawden's picture

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Natasha, i suspect Anonymoususer is someone engaged by the Minister or Crown Law in some capacity... clearly senior enough but wont dare fess up to their identity...

If the Dept really had good intentions, and Anonymous user genuinely believed in what they espoused, one would think they'd provide a name and contact point for grievous complaints to be followed up. Oh well, perhaps I would if it were me defending the Dept.

Anonymoususer writes: "I have seen some horrific things in the past and quiet often the damage has been done to an extent that it is almost irrevirsable.
I cannot express the extent to which "maintaining best connections with family" is pursued within the Dept. FSA DO NOT LIKE/ENJOY/GET PLEASURE OUT OF/ETC REMOVING CHILDREN FROM FAMILIES - THIS IS THE LAST RESORT WHEN ALL OTHER OPTIONS HAVE BEEN DRASTICALLY EXHAUSTED."

Bullocks! But if I repeat the real names and details of those cases Id get sued!!!
Then the text-book patronising, condescension all carers get when they complain about their maltreatment... wit for it..: "I understand what you are trying to express but I find this extremely difficult to accept. Children are in NO WAY bullied to lie or divulge incorrect information. Investigations are REAL accounts of what has happened based on REAL evidence."

So real, they wont allow video or audio taping of these interviews and no such copies to be provided to carers falsely accused!!! SURPRISE!

And: "If a child divulges abuse then this is taken seriously and further investigations are made. FSA do what is best for the child."

FSA are the omnipotent, benevolent, all-knowing, truth telling defenders of children. In fact, carers and critics are all to be disbelieved as only FSA knows the truth. The State is the best parent - not real families. What they wont tell you is they wont ever be found in the same room with the child and carers to witness that moment when the child denies emphatically - nothing happened! If the child says "nothing happened", they are "in denial due to trauma". Heads they win; tails they win!

"I have seen foster placements "break down" all the time as carers often cannot deal with the extreme behaviours of traumatised children and simply give up." They give up because FSA never provides the planned and strategic support they need to stay healthy, sane and supported!!! FSA has NEVER provided a Family Preservation Plan for a family in any of the many thousands of cases I have researched and the official response from Jay Weatherill's Advisor (on his behalf) some 2 years ago was "the Department is NOT REQUIRED TO comply with it Manual of Practice" which ensures Family Preservation is implemented in every case where a child may be removed - BEFORE REMOVAL!

"Many children who enter the system are suffering disabilities or conditions or are delayed by years. This could mean birth parents are incapable of providing care for their children and are removed as a result.

"Usually children in foster care develop great relationships with a foster family and it is THEIR choice to remain there." But not before they are brainwashed or forced to forget every memory of loving parents. Not before they are told that their parents were abusers, mentally sick, etc... Ask Ki Meekins! This is what my niece and nephew were told when they were to be forcibly removed on nothing.

"Sometimes the Dept will not remove that child from this place as it would be damaging to interrupt their development and relationships that have been formed with their foster carers." Always a good reason to justify failing to correct or remedy cases where bad decisions were made for the wrong reasons using corrupt practices! When is it ever in the best interests of a child to be left in a wrongful situation based on a lie?

"Children involved in FSA are extremely traumatised and it is very upsetting to see." Really? So why not lobby for the Department to implement the full extent of the Manual of Practice as it was pre 2008 - as opposed to the watered down version created to fit the malpractices of the past 2 decades?

"The Department is not manipulative or scheming to ruin peoples lives. If you feel you have been wrongly treated/accused then I plead that you raise this as it is your right as a parent." Actually, it is extremely manipulative. Whats missing here is the footnote that *Parents have NO RIGHTS* only supposed responsibilities... that's how the social workers can justify anything they want.

The Pied Piper's picture

Families SA

Oh dear FSA worker, you are brave.

I think what you may be missing is the very thing you state:

"...but that is because people are running it and mistakes are inevitably going to be made."

Once mistakes are made a world of damage is done. For this there is no defence. You must agree that there are no acceptable apologies for the harm done although I doubt anyone has recieved a sorry or heard any confirmation of wrong doing.

I also do not believe there is some evil plot in place to remove children and then continue to damage them post-placement by government. But it happens often and whether planned or not makes no difference to anyone made the victim.

Your defence of the department seems to be one of good intentions and we all know where that path leads.

But let me check one thing about SA that appears to be the case in NSW. Do your NGO's also not want to place children with their carers long term if the children have more than 6 visits a year with their biological families?

Because I suspect that NGO's policies are upheld even if in direct opposition with government department policy.

Matilda Bawden's picture

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The Pied Piper, whilst I know there are genuinely good, but inexperienced and misguided practitioners in the Department, I have many names and real cases I can name where malice and deliberate corruption are in fact involved in keeping good people separated from their kids. This is often at the higher levels - Regional Manager and above. In several of these cases however, junior social workers were rewarded with positions as Ministerial Reps after destroying the family according to directives from above. Being young, unwitting or foolish, they obliged, afterall their careers were to be made on executing the orders. One person was a base-grader for some 18 months before making Senior Practitioner - for which you had to have 2 yrs minimum! In another the Social Worker who totally %$#@&! up an 11 yo runaways life and destroyed his father and auntie, before running away back home got herself a nice job as Ministerial Advisor in the Ministerial office... The Minister knew of her sinister role in this family and she was appropriately rewarded... NICE ONE!!!

The Pied Piper, I would accept mistakes and poor judgment, but mere incompetence corrects itself. It is when the poor decisions or mistakes are repeatedly ignored, swept aside, covered up and justified that one has to conclude a deliberate corruption of the department's stated purpose mandate.

Because I have seen this first-hand, The Pied Piper, I DO believe there are some who deliberately set out to cause damage to kids as a consequence of their reckless indifference to the needs and plight of the family.

Ultimately, one has to ask "Why is the Australian Association of Social Workers (AASW) silent whilst all this is playing out in the public arena?".

Matilda Bawden's picture

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Said like the perfect Ministerial apologist!

Why is it that people who claim the Department is all good, virtuous, benevolent and infallible never have the guts or decency to put their name to such posts??

With respect, as a S/Wkr with Families SA u cant objectively assert as fact that removal takes place ONLY in abuse cases when we know many things, including that: strong financial incentives exist to remove children; the Family Preservt'n Model as required by the Manual of Practice is never enforced; the Youth Court WILL NOT hold S/Wkrs to account... See More - claiming not to have jurisdictn as FSA is "not on trial"; Family Care Meetings require that "[families] accept that FSA have legitimate concerns...THE MEETING MAY NOT BE USED TO CHALLENGE FSA ABOUT WHAT THEY SAY"; & the Full Supreme Court ruled the Crown DOES NOT OWE parents a Duty of Care (DOC) at all. You say the YC "examines" evidence. No it does not. It only accepts the Dept's evidence but it wont challenge the Dept, therefore, it unquestioningly accepts Deptl lies also. So much for the fair and transparent trail - which, incidentally, friends and family of victims can't attend. No witnesses, no victim, no crime - right!?

The State's courts have a convention of refusing to affirm that child protection authorities & Crown owe a DOC 'even to the child'. No-one has ever been successful in a ruling to the contrary - not even a member of the Stolen Generation nor a former State Ward before the Mulligan Inquiry. Whilst S/Wkrs pay lip service on the importance of F/Carers,your peers regularly shaft F/ Carers with the same treatment dished out to natural family members - only they have NO RECOURSE to the Courts! Most targeted are those who care for a child with a disability

Would it really piss u off to know your most senior S/Wkrs is NOT qualified & doesn't know models & S/Wk theories!? It should! So who regulates your practice, then? Have u ever researched why your Quality Assurance Unit was shut down only a few short years after the Cooper Report recommended it? If u have ever devised or implemented a FP Plan & followed the MOP, then hide it and tell no-one... u could be targeted & ear-marked for dismissal by your execs.

Whilst the Stolen Generation were stolen for the colour of their skin, for countless decades it was emphatically denied as the reason, rather it was carried out under the guise of "the child's best interests" for assimilation - never on skin colour alone! The criteria for the Foster Generation now is pissing off the S/Wkr & challenging their malpractice.

The S/Wkrs objective in the Foster Generation has 3 main features: 1) to destroy or restructure the pre-intervention family, 2) take children as far away from relative carers & 3) perpetuate multiple Foster placements. To trigger that requires the parent/ carer to do no more than dare to complain about the lack of transparency and due process as per the MOP; which incidentally ur Ministers, past and present, claim not to have to enforce. The real travesty is that S/Wkrs who do the wrong thing & remain faithful to the Minister get promoted VERY, VERY FAST, quid pro-quo!

Anytime you wish, Id be happy to put you in touch with children & F/Carers who have been DAMAGED - not helped - by the conduct of the Dept. Tell THEM that only good reasons were given to the YC for decimating their families. Tell them that they are isolated cases & that most of what FSA does is great, benevolent work that is justifiable...

You make the point very succinctly, Sarah, and sadly there is an entirely new, fresh generation of others coming out in the score just like you... the Social Workers are not learning from the past. They just move on to find new victims all in the self-righteous premise of acting "in the childs best interests" (aka. What I say goes). Yes, sometime... See more kids need to be removed, but mostly they need to have their families helped stay strong and functional. If the S/Wkrs has to walk a mile in your shoes, I wonder what they would chose to do instead.

What the Dept doesn't get is you cant help families sitting in an office and refusing to "get your hands dirty". Easy to dictate to a family to manage their finances whilst sitting in a middle-class suburb on full pay, but come down and see how far a pension stretches for a grandmother caring for her kids and grandkids on no assets, but then being told you're not good enough to care for them at all... its evil!

bringingthemhome's picture

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Pure evil is breeding across the country ...no doubt about it.The only thing i would disagree with is that you call these people of today > Social Workers. They are not Social Workers as the Social Workers of old were sent to assist and support families. These young people today working in the system have nil social qualities nor conscience.

FREE THE CHILDREN

Matilda Bawden's picture

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And I totally agree with you.. they are an embarrassment to the profession. You are right. The REAL Social Workers once upon a time spent all their time on the ground at the coal-face pulling the downtrodden and embattled out of their suffering, not drowning them into despair. Today, you dont have to do anything as long as you have a desk, phone and internet. The rest you can make up. What a disgrace.

bringingthemhome's picture

Re: My story with Families SA / Breeding Corruption

Hi Matilda

There is no doubt that you are a peer of many of us here who are wittnessing the atrocities of child trafficking, abuse and systemic corruption under the guise of child protection in Australia today.

You mentioned financial incentives and hit the nail on the head with that one comment alone. There are financial incentives all over the place as in monetary gains for the real abusers in child protection today.

Re: Fresh out of UNI ... 2nd 3rd 4th year caseworkers and their managers...client managers....regional directors who are all trained in grotty immoral and unethical work practices and all seeking positions of financial gain.

Then across the way and up the Rd we have the NGO's all colluding with the Dpt and all raking in HUGE finacial gains.

And NOT ONE SOCIAL WORKER ANYWHERE TO BE SEEN.

FREE THE CHILDREN

DocSniper's picture

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Having worked for the Department I can honestly say that Families SA (FSA) DO NOT remove children from families unless abuse/neglect is PROVEN.

What a load of shit, See if this rings a bell, to how you and your sick dept manipulate.
Remember july of 2008 ? in parafield gardens, 11 children,rah,rah.that happened on a sunday, even made ACA news.
Well,2 days before that, being a friday, you dogs came to a normal stable home, with police, with no questioning to why you are there, FSA then orders the X partner to kick me out on the streets or she will lose the children, when she refused, The children and the mother wrote affidavits,stating there was no abuse of any kind.
Yet FSA Ordered the police to charge me with trespassing. even then FSA still abused the children and the mother, till the mother dumped me on Xmas eve. nice one, ay, murder children, murder love. must be real proud of yourself.

I told you retards, dont be like QLD and get it wrong, do the true investigation and get it right, but, oh!!, no, just came and murdered.

I saw how many homeless kids roamed the streets, why isnt FSA helping them..huh,? no profit,in it for FSA.
While im on a roll, what about that child that went to the Adelaide zoo, killed a bird, and hes only punishment was a all paid air trip to NSW to his mom...Nice one.

I will agree on one thing, There is child/ren out there being abused in a format, as to does FSA abuse/neglects/murders/molesters the child/ren in their care.

I can promise FSA this, As soon as I win here, I am coming there and I am going to shatter every foundation of FSA, I will prove that corruption of the slims in FSA.

Consider this a warning.

DOCS = Death of children services
DHS = Death of Human Souls
Thy sty of thy eye is ecumenical Gone. Thy eye see's thy Myopia in thy Pharisees. And a Lumber jack is required.

anon's picture

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Dear Families SA worker,

I don't know if you still work for FSA or if you are one of the many who have left the dept. You clearly didn't work for the dept for very long or you don't know processes very well. Please learn your stuff before providing info to people on here. People like you who don't know what you are doing is dangerous for those who rely on info here. If you believe that FSA are without guilt, ask yourself why FSA find it so hard to recruit and keep social workers. Also ask yourself why there are so many people with complaints about the dept. Are they all wrong and FSA always right??

Anonymous's picture

child protection

What a shame none of you came to give evidence to the parliamentary select committee into Families SA. it was set up 2 years ago by ann bressington of the legislative council of sa. maybe you all should go to her website www.bressington.net and see what she has to say about this department. maybe you could write to her with your stories and she could read them out in parliament. i also lost my grandchildren to families sa. they are now in foster care and are so unhappy and now the mongrels have cut my contact with them for no reason. something really needs to be done about this and yes i think a rally is a great idea as long as we all wear masks to hide out faces because we would never, never see out kids again. sometimes i wonder what country we are living in. it is like nazi germany when they turned the kids against their families and convinced a nation that the jews were the cause of all their troubles. now it seems that parents and grandparents are the "jews" and the cause of all the problems. this state needs an overhaul the problem is "how" we are a faceless, voiceless people. i think we all need to get together and organize ourselves. we have to be heard and seen because as it is now we are nothing but "stories", urban myths that no one believes.
BROKEN HEARTS, BROKEN LIVES AND LOST DREAMS

DocSniper's picture

Sa is just as bad as Qld

I have more shame living in this country.
Ann Bressington is all mouth, I even approached her with a Polygraph conducted by one of her mates,Gavin Wilson, Past it and she said Oh! errmmm, ya bucked passed,didnt want anything to do with me, as all the other retards in Sa, I and the Said X partner, Begged for help and all we got was this separation we didnt wanted.

Their time is coming and this nation Should be so Ashamed of itself.

DOCS = Death of children services
DHS = Death of Human Souls
Thy sty of thy eye is ecumenical Gone. Thy eye see's thy Myopia in thy Pharisees. And a Lumber jack is required.

Janisthefree's picture

THIS GREAT SOUTHERN LAND

DONT BE ASHAMED OF THIS LAND, BE ASHAMED OF THE GOVERNMENT THAT IS NOTHING BUT A FRAUDULENT BODY OF TERRORISTS THAT HAVE HELD US IN SLAVERY FRO GENERATIONS......LEARN THE LAW, THE TRUE LAW AND START HITTING THEM WITH THEIR OWN WEAPONS....UNDER INTERNATIONAL LAW...... THEY COMMIT AN ACT OF WAR EVERY SINGLE DAY, AND ONLY THE HUMANS CAN STOP IT......
YES THEIR TIME IS NIGH AND I AM SURE THEY ARE GUILTY OF MIS ..RE.PRESENTINTING US, THEY ARE OUR SERVANTS NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND......THE QUEEN HAS NO RIGHT IN THE AUSTRALASIAN COUNTRIES NOR THE PACIFIC ISLANDS..... WE HAVE BEEN DUPED, AND THEY CARRY OUT THEIR TYRANNY LAUGHING AT THE GENERAL PUBLIC DAILY......BUT THEIR DAYS ARE NUMBERED......

kym's picture

i feel for you im 16 and in

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i feel for you im 16 and in the goverment care. families sa are not so inocent i think almost half of the abuse comes from familes sa workers. in my for years of being in care i have seen 2 families sa workers have sexual realtionships with the young people and nothing done about it. another worker ran away with a young girl that i was friends with.
i have had my shoulder fractured by a families sa worker for refusing to go out side in my pajamas. When i was 15 i was locked out side the house in a dressing gown, bra and undies for longer the 5 hrs in the cold becouse i would not maintain eye contact with the worker.
becouse of the way i have been treated by familes sa i have now got depresion and at 14 to 15 i hit it hard i over dosed and almost died. i cut my arms so bad that now i have scares all over my left arm that will never fade i do regret it soo much and wish i'd never done it at the time it did'nt even tickle.
but my point is this is what families sa have done to me and not only me i have so many friends that have done do much worse then me.
familes sa are more abuseiv then any parent out there.

xoxo

warrkiman's picture

Re: i feel for you im 16 and in

I understand where you are coming from. Im a bit older than 16 now but I was in care in SA before I moved to NSW. (BIG mistake) I was sexually assaulted by the foster father repeatedly. I too suffered from depression, I still do. Hiut me up on my profile if ya wanna chat

088WHATEVER's picture

feel for you

hello, i know it is so hard to deal with issues about families sa but i am here to try and make a diffrence, your add was something i have been waiting for and i will promise this to you famlies sa secrets will be brought out in the open, but as for you kido you hold on there and if ever you need to talk just let me know, if families sa spent more time on the children that shouldnt be at home rather than families that try so hard and in the end sends them over the eage, that would be tax payers money well spent or goverments money witch ever the case be,very soon you can live on your own or return to your family and there isnt anything they can do as long as you are safe and happy and stand your ground with them you have rights,you take care for now and i will get back to you soon xoxo

DocSniper's picture

SA is a target

Kym: its not half,try like 90% of Family SA child care workers, there is more predictors,in government,then in the community.
I lived in SA for a Year, and saw more kids on the streets, abused in any manner, while family sa, will invade a normal stable homes.

This I can and will Promise you,Qld is my stepping stone to SA, for as soon as I am done with Qld, SA is my next Target.
not only family sa, but,also SA police force and mental health. tween the three, they are all corrupted,all are molesters.
The biggest Bitch of it all, They all know,to whats going on and just do nothing about it. Even SA Ombudsman, takes the side of Family SA.

Kym: as an idea, I encourage you, to start placing pen to paper and write up all that has happened to you and whom ever else you happen to know, that has been abused by Family Sa. every detail counts.

DOCS = Death of children services
DHS = Death of Human Souls
Thy sty of thy eye is ecumenical Gone. Thy eye see's thy Myopia in thy Pharisees. And a Lumber jack is required.

Anonymous's picture

Families SA

well i feel for you because i know what it is like to have families SA accuse you of doing something when you havent done anything. I had just has a baby and they did a home visit. My husband at the time was suffering depression and this lady reported this to her supervisor and we were investigated. they said that psychologically my husbands depression would effect my other childrens mental stablility. My husband and i seperated after these alligations and months later when i needed help i seen the lady who reported me, I approached her and she actually appoligised and said she made a mistake. bit late by then my marriage ended because of her over dramatising my situation. im now a single mother and life is hard when im on my own.

DocSniper's picture

Family SA dating Service.

Psychiatry and child care workers,Sleep together. like the QLD pm and CMC sleep together.
Okies, you just had a baby, Why did family SA,had to visit your home ?.Seems a bit more to this ?. and which office ?.

Like your husband at the time, Not that I was in a depression,I went and saw retards at the mental health in Elizabeth. That retard twisted my words and reported me,that same night,I am forced out of the family home and Charged with trespassing. No Questioning to why's.
Family SA told the X,that she couldnt have a man in her home,until the youngest child turns 18, she was 12 at the time.
In my sarcasm,I stated that Family Sa should be a dating service,Unless a man is Investigated By family Sa, No women can have a man, And you proves this to me, How many other women are now single with children, all because,the Man you want to be with and trust,is no longer a man for you,until Family Sa gives the go ahead.
Maybe get out of the state, and start afresh, thats what the X and I was planning,until the X rolled over like a dog to family Sa.

DOCS = Death of children services
DHS = Death of Human Souls
Thy sty of thy eye is ecumenical Gone. Thy eye see's thy Myopia in thy Pharisees. And a Lumber jack is required.

Anonymous's picture

hello all i am a sigle mum

hello all i am a sigle mum that the system has screwed and i have scares that always will remain , the stories i have read here make me sad but i relate to each and everyone here and as i am doing my homework with families sa and in coming weeks hope i can bring peoples attention to this page and yes i do agree we need to do every thing we can to bring these problems out in the open,all i can say to you all is stay strong you are not alone there are people out there with simular prolems to do with families sa.........

DocSniper's picture

Greetings.

Evening, and welcome to Altnews.
Yes, Family sa, is no better the queensland as I am sure the rest of the state.
My Abuse is from these two states, SA and QLD. and I do very much agree,SA is also very much corrupted.
Sa was were I started to open doors, until Family sa destroyed the family.

DOCS = Death of children services
DHS = Death of Human Souls
Thy sty of thy eye is ecumenical Gone. Thy eye see's thy Myopia in thy Pharisees. And a Lumber jack is required.

Anonymous's picture

families sa

our foster child was removed recently, following supposed allegations against us. as of yet we have not been informed of what we have supposedly done, even though we know we have not done a thing wrong. meantime the child is god knows where being treated god knows how. absolutely destroying our family.i hope they are prepared to be very very sued when this is said and done.

Anonymous's picture

sa

Go to the courts or the children's commission. I'm not sure what you have there but fight for the child. Deny deny all allegations and put the burden of proof on them. Just because they say it, doesn't mean its true and courts are not stupid. Fight for that child and your self as well, been there done that. The umberella The DOCs live under is not rigid enough to not get through! Break them down and document everything! Good luck. celeb

Janisthefree's picture

re the childrens commission

no joy there at all and the dept tribunals are three biased bigots who are in favor of this serial behavior...... bravehearts will let you down too..... the govenor general ignores pleas as well....so really a public rallying of all the support groups is needed . I speak to youth who have been in foster care and you see the hate in their eyes when you mention DOCs.....this issue is not only national, but international..... someone has to start the ball rolling as children are still dying and families being broken up and characters defamed with this mob......

The Pied Piper's picture

Another Child Taken

Hey Anonymous. I'm guessing the child went on to other foster parents?

Same happened to my family in NSW.

And this is another family in SA it happened to:

http://members.ozemail.com.au/~mmmayger/

You wont get much sympathy here, in general they think if it isn't your biological child then you could never have loved them.

DocSniper's picture

My story to back you up Michael.

Well, Michael, and here i was thinking I am The only one, We come so close in the details you out lined.
Mine started in QLD, and the Local PM, Peter Lindsey.Who I and the X went to seek help from. His Quote, Leave this city and dont have kids.Unquote.
I meet a women in SA, we hit it off. she has 4 kids, I male 3 girls. 12-17(twins) and 19. While in SA I still wanted to prove that I am a Normal minded human, So I undertook a Polygraph test and Past it. 6 months into the relationship, all is good, until I went to seek help from Elizabeth Mental health unit, That was in June of 08,you may also recall the news headline around that time of Family Sa and a family in Parafield gardens, that Family Sa raided on a sunday, well, on the friday before,the day I was at that Health unit, that person twisted to what I said, and reported me to Family Sa, at around 8:30pm of that same evening,the nazis turned up,20 minutes later a female tells me I must leave this house. The X, didnt want me to leave nor did she ever state that she wanted me to, family sa,used that stand over tactics, yet she still didnt say to anyone there,that she wanted me to leave, I told the Cops if family sa wants me to leave you have to arrest me, and they did,I am charged with trespassing, not ever questioned to why they even turned up, no questioning even at the watch house. Thats a fake charge that the cops Jumped to commands from family Sa. Family Sa only information is from QLD and thats what Family sa worked on, A 12 yr old girl was Molested and Family sa points the finger at me,( i have this recorded.) yet I was else where with the X, having dinner at a club.
Approaching anyone to obtain help, is a Zero, from the ombudsman to all politicians all play that buck passing, No true investigation, they just sat at a desk on the ph and on a PC and this is how they judged me. with fabrication.

Dont ever be sorry if your speaking the truth, I have done all I can to prove I am a good man. family sa Do nothing, just add more to you as the more you try to clear your name.I have been branded by them and then they add,I am a terrorist that wants to take hostages.
You say your a Big person, well, I am a small person, I class myself as a roadkill.But, when I find a woman that just wants me for me, I am then a somebody to someone.
What Does a Pedo look like?. for all we know Rudd looks like a Pedo, Rudd kinda looks like Dennis Ferguson. so if we are to go by looks, then Rudd is a candidate.
What about females? what does a female pedo looks like?. mmmmmm, looks like a anna bligh
A female school teacher has sex with a under age student, she walks free, If that was a man, he be marched right to prison.
The system in australia is corrupted,The laws are retarded. and its run by Bigger retards that looks like Pedo's. For they do just that, They murder children, they molest children, They rape them and abuse them. Yet, they walk away free, No fair justice in this country called australia.
Heres a very good EG:, In Sa a child(16) can obtain a license to a car and become killers or be killed. Yet that same 16 yr old cant have sex,cant vote, cant goto the pub, But can drive on the open roads. But to Family sa, your still a child till 18. hows that for a Retarded government making retarded laws. The same applies in QLD. A 14 yr old child has to pay adult fees to movies, to centre link your still classed as a child, at 25, If. They goto school and live with a parent/s.
Do you think I just pointed out Retards?.

DOCS = Death of children services
DHS = Death of Human Souls
Thy sty of thy eye is ecumenical Gone. Thy eye see's thy Myopia in thy Pharisees. And a Lumber jack is required.

Michael's picture

Some more information about my situation

Oh I know DocSniper once you are branded by Families SA as a pedophile, the damage is impossible to be done. I would go as far to say that an innocent person has essentially no chance to right any wrongs, the only exception might be if you have a LOT of money. Unfortunately I do not- I cannot get a lawyer. Some of the lawyers themselves have been also because the mother (only just after multiple appeals) managed to get legal aid to get a lawyer to fight the order taking the kids away until they are 18. Thankfully she knows I am innocent of what Families SA says about me, because they also tried to insinuate on various occasions that SHE was molesting her son. That opened her eyes. Anyway she got this lawyer who read her file. She was going into the lawyers office, and I was there as she went into the office, I walked off with the two oldest children (to occupy them while she was in the appointment). Do you know what the lawyer said when she was in his office? Is that the guy that molested your daughter? Your letting your children be with a person that molested your children? The lawyer himself, quite obviously believed the allegations. What chance does a person have if ones own legal counsel doesn't believe them? NONE. I have learned to consider people irrational. I expect people if they hear what has been said about me to believe it. The mere accusation of being a child molester, even without hearing evidence, and they believe its true. She had this training psychologist coming around to her house (the mother). And she mentioned to them (I told her NOT to tell people, that people don't understand). Well she told the psychologist that I was accused of molesting her daughter but it was not true. The psychologist didnt know any more than that assertion, she had no information to even attempt to make a judgment on, but you should have seen the look that this female psychologist gave me. She looks straight into my eyes with the strongest most obvious look of contempt towards me. I just walked out of the room. I mean that was it- instantly judged and assumed to be guilty on the spot. I've only talked to a minimal amount of people about the allegations, my brother. Most my family I have never told, my ex best friend (that i have known since I was 5), I won't tell him. Because he has kids. Seriously I know I am fine around children, you just don't tell people you have been accused of this, its just a doubt you don't want to put in peoples minds. They aren't going to want to even invite you over to their house for dinner if they even think their is a remote chance you might be a child molester.

One of the girls that was told by Families SA that I molested her sister eventually came back to live with her mum (she constantly ran away and Families SA eventually realized they couldn't stop her returning to her mums, they called it "Voting with her feet").

Well they damaged her. When she first came back I think she believed I molested her sister. A lot of damage has been done. This is a little girl that used to love me to pieces. I have made progress, but I don't think the damage between us will ever fully be repaired. What makes it worst is she just won't talk about the issues involved, so you can't get a validation of what she is thinking. She is civil towards me now but I am always on my guard. Every now and then i see a bit of the old affection she used to freely display towards me break through. Those moments are worth a million dollars to me.

Actually I remember the time when she was turned against me. I remember the last time when she acted like she used to be towards me.

This was at the beginning of the situation, just before the allegations were pushed against me. I was invited over, by her foster mother. The reason was that the child missed me so much and wanted to spend time with me. At first I thought everything went well. The foster mother was what I would say "a bit weird". For example, she had just met me, but she went out to the shop for 20 minutes and left me alone with the child and also her niece.

Well it all seemed to go well, but at the end a big problem occurred. It was a REALLY hot day, over 40c. She offered to give me a lift home and dropped me off at my brothers. My brother is very fit and had just got back from a jog. He had jogged 12 kilometres. It was 40+ c. He has no top on. He waved to the girl and said it was nice to see her again.

I never received further contact from the foster mother. Several weeks later I find out from the girl that the foster mother had been saying very strange things. That is was VERY inappropriate that my brother didn't have a top on etc. I was on the phone (for one of the last times) to the girl. I asked her about it. I said, gently and politely, "has your foster mother said anything strange about the fact that my brother said hi to you without a top on?". She said that it was RUDE, got very angry and for the first time hung up on me. Ever since then things have never been the same. Its a shame that this girl I have always considered one of the most suggestible and influenced of the children. Honestly I am just outlining things here, but seriously they brainwashed her.

Several months ago, by luck I bumped into one of the children I am not allowed to see. This is the youngest child. I was walking down to the mothers house for a visit and they were having an access visit on the oval. The youngest child has NOT seen me since she was FOUR years old. For over 3 years. She is around 7 now. I couldn't have even been sure she could even remember who I am, and certainly not still have feelings for me. She spotted me after so much time (she has almost doubled in age) from over one hundred metres away. She ran, excited, shouting my name. Ran all the way over to me and grabbed onto me hugging me. She said that she loves me. It broke my heart it really did. I said I had to go that I am not allowed to see her. I knew that Families SA could use this as an opportunity to further restrict the mothers minimal access with her children. They USE ANYTHING to crack down on her, to be frank, they can pretend they are all objective and professional, but it so OBVIOUS they despise the mother, and that they are always looking for opportunities to fault her.

That was the last time I saw that child. Maybe when she is a teenager she will rebel and I might see her again, I mean if I'm still alive, I never take anything for granted in this life. I will have missed out on her entire childhood. She is so unhappy in care. I am not joking when she constantly says that she "HATES" her carer. She uses those words, a young girl like that. She is living with someone she constantly says she hates. I will always love her, but part of me doesn't want to see her again when she is a teenager, part of me wants to let go. The situation between us is dead, Families SA has destroyed it. Her childhood is precious to me, but I am not a part of it any more.

It really annoys me. I am an atheist. The mother is not religious. But the second youngest girl is being "looked after" by a deeply religious woman, who has brain washed her into being a christian girl, and she goes to a religious school. church on sundays, and reads the bible with the carer. They have no right to impose their religious values on a child like that, but there is nothing we can do.

I guess I am lucky I have the teenagers, they are simply too feisty to be stopped from seeing me, and Families SA knowns that they can do little. The one I mentioned in my last post, who screamed out at the police that I am not a pedophile (in a public area in front of many people), actually took a swipe at the police officer when she was being dragged into the police car, she nearly got him in the face too. It was sort of comical though, because she is a very small person, and police officer is so large. It did look funny her trying to punch him in the head. I was worried at the time however, I didn't want them to lock her up.

One of the boys, he comes visits me every weekend, despite the fact he is in care. He has extreme anger problems and can be VERY violent. Honestly I think the social workers and the people that care for him are scared of him, when he starts getting angry they always back down. Thats why he can come see me, seriously he has such severe anger problems (he had brain damage at birth which I think contributes to his inability to control his temper) I could HONESTLY imagine him trying to stab one of them or something if they tried to block him seeing me. I have been very concerned about him doing something serious and ending up in prison. He is the most violent person I have ever met, though he is fine with me, cause I know how to handle him. He is a good kid he just has problems.

So my situation is the two youngest children, are TOTALLY blocked from seeing me. With the next oldest she was brainwashed against me, and some of that damage has been repaired, however still more progress needs to be made. The teenagers (there are four of them), are all TOTALLY on my side, and could never be brainwashed or turned against me now. All of them HATE Families SA, and they use that exact word to describe how they feel towards Families SA. They consider that Families SA has destroyed their family, and broken their connection with their younger sisters because they can only see them about once a month for about 90 minutes. In court Families SA said they are dedicated to maintaining the connection between the children. 90 minutes is all they spend together per month. Oops something is on, sorry we'll have to miss this month. There has been occasions where they missed 3 months in a row, always some excuse why from Families SA.

I honestly think some of these social workers get off on the power of breaking the connections between people. I know any person that hasn't been involved in such a situation couldn't believe that. It sounds like some conspiracy theory, but you haven't seen what I have seen.

Well end second rant. Wherever the kids are tonight I LOVE THEM, and I LOVE THEM more than any "carer" they are placed with could ever possibly care for them.

DocSniper's picture

How many can beat and con a Polygraph test ?.

At the end of the day, we that are abused by the system seek that justice in a court of law. we need that right to defend.
If we the abused do all we can to show and to prove who we are.Why then do the government still say your a kid frker?.
The why's is easy. Just with myself,I employ 20 odd people, from doctors to psychs to people in Relationship Aust,victims of crime,CMC,ombudsman.
As one SA lawyer quoted to me. This is a business,whether your are guilty or not, its all about business.
Unless one is Rich to obtain a QC, your life belongs to DOCS.
This country is so anti family. Just walk the Streets of Adelaide or any city or country town and see children living on the streets, DOCS wont help them. but will come to a normal non abusive stable home and just murder it. The Man will always lose as DOCS will force the said partner to choose, Kids or the father to the kids, and 100% of the time, the woman will pick the kids and the man is no more.

DOCS = Death of children services
DHS = Death of Human Souls
Thy sty of thy eye is ecumenical Gone. Thy eye see's thy Myopia in thy Pharisees. And a Lumber jack is required.

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