Here I am again You now know a little bit about what happened to me as a child and in some peoples eyes some people may say that I am at risk of losing my children just off the falacy the abused children grow up to be the abuser.

In January 2006 we became homeless and where living in a tent at a local c/park in town and I notified DOCS of the situation. Now a number of you cringe to think what sort of actions DOCS would take from that.

What they did was nothing they didnt try to take the kids, the only reason why they didnt wipe our slate I beleive is were just hooked up with to many support workers and medical proffesianals.

But in saying they did nothing thats precicely what they did nothing they didnt help with crisis accomadation food or anything. They put me in contact with this chap that they said had help them on numorous occations I went through him for a while with no success I fianlly ask him how he had helped DOCS out in the past and he knew nothing of it and he said that there was nothing he could do other than proccess our application and see what the owner of the property had to say. We could do this on our own but if we where not surrounded with support workers I have no doudt we would not have our kids so get those support workers on your side you may feel at first they are against you. I you can show them character they can help ultimately there main priority is the kids. But you need to go there and talk about how much you have archeived not how DOCS are a bunch of barstards. They can act as an advocate for you with DOCS